A pupil of The Rainbow Bridge school spoke these wise words to me: “It is all about the process Erika”. I couldn’t feel the depth of these words at the time . It is now a reality check. I am ready and have taken the next step. I have an expansive feeling now within myself while writing these words..
Process
After my soulmate passed away 15 years ago, I began my inner journey.
A lot happened all at once. I left the commercial industry, dived into different subjects related to ‘the new age’ and started a private practice. Time to bring two worlds together. I learned about the spiritual meaning of the senses and became conscious of my own qualities in relation to the subject. I learned about different healingtechniques and how energy works. This helped me in the treatment and healingprocess of the especially very sensitive children.
The development of my 5th, 6th and 7th chakra gave me the connection to the cosmic realities and the shadow of these realities. I sometimes had to learn it the hard way. Lucky me to know people who could give me advice and teach me how to cope with it. I experienced my private practice as one living workshop learning so much from the children. Along the way and especially over the last couple of years I embodied my physical body more and more which gives me more grounding. I went through a lot of healingsessions which was all worth it. A couple of years ago I did a training in The Art of Feminine Presence to become a teacher. This gives me the final touch I needed to embrace the feminine energies in me and find the balance between the masculine and feminine energies.
I understand now that every project I embrace gives me more depth and innerjoy with regard to my mental, physical, spiritual and material realities.
My experience is that I am always ahead of time with my projects and that wasn’t always easy for people around me. Lucky me if there was someone around who understood what was meant. I have learned to use simple words which makes life more easier. I know now that it was hard for me to contain the energy. I either withdraw myself or I went all over the place with my energy. I did not realize what I was doing at the time.
The Rainbow Bridge was for me and all involved an enormous learning process. When you start a life changing process, in this case education, it is important that it has a strong base to survive. That means that the initiator needs to have this strong foundation within him- or herself.
I can now see that I wasn’t ready for the adventure yet.
I needed the ‘burn-out’ after the school had to close down to come into contact with my physical body and become conscious of how the process of grounding works. My personal finances were a terrible mess and I needed one year to sort everything out. I almost lost my house and I had negleced the signals my body gave to me.
After three years I received a phonecall of a mother asking me to help her and her son. He was placed out of the house by a governmental institution and only wanted help from me. They came in my practice when he was 4 years old. This was 7 years later. This child was superpsychic, highsensitive and very creative. School was a torment for him. I was confronted with a brand new world: Youth Care and Child Protective Services.
I came in contact with an educational lawyer who was looking for a child psychologist who could think ‘out of the box’. We worked together for a bout 4 years and made a difference ni many cases for the children and parents..
My challenge in these cases is to be crystal clear about my vision and as authentic as possible and make the other party curious and openminded while looking for solutions they are not used to. It were always case about children/youngsters till 18 years with difficult school- and homely situations. They were often very sensitive, authentic, (highly) intelligent, creative thinkers and technically
Interested and………………..a heart of gold.
In December 2013 I was an expert witness in a court case. A guardianship was requested. We had already won a former lawsuit in which they wanted the child to go to a psychiatric clinic.
Two days prior to the courtcase I received a Youtube video about Diabolo, a black leopard who became Spirit. A story about an animal who lived in a zoo in Europe and was badly treated. One day he was transported to a reservation parc in South Africa . He lived there now for 6 months and refused to leave his night shelter. He hated humans. The owner did not know what to do with him and at the same time did not want to let him go. A journalist told him about an animal communicator. He wasn’t open to it at first but had no other choice. This woman communicator was the solution to his problem. Listen and see for yourself.
The story touched me deeply and I had to cry over and over again. I knew immediately I had to tell this story in the courtroom. And so I did. The judge listened to my story intensely and understood what I wanted to tell her with it.
Everybody in the room, except for the lady of the Child Protective Services, got the message. The judge needed time and the next day she told the parents that we had won the courtcase.
For me it was the final curtain to a breakthrough. My gutfeeling told me: “You are ready for the next step.” And so I am.
I am on the eve of a new project for children in the age of 0 – 100+. It is not a school. It is a place where they are inspired to connect with mother Earth, the Cosmos and learn the meaning life on earth in connection to us all. Get the feeling again from our authentic self , learn your passion and share wisdom and knowledge with each other. There are a lot of wise children among us right know. They deserve to be heard and seen. In that way we can live the paradigmshift earth is longing for.
Did I make you curious and do you want to know more about this project, sent me an email: erika.debly@hetnet.nl
To share my story with you means a lot to me and helps me to make this next step into my life. Writing the first article was scary and it took me some time to write this last article. I feel free now and very HAPPY.
