by: Marcella de Klerk
I had a nice conversation this morning with my twin sister about space.
If you've spent in pairs in a belly, you learn to share. Literally and figuratively.
A yin and yang feeling. That’s how we felt. We complemented each other, she was good at beta subjects, I was good at languages. I was/am an outgoing person, she was/is more introverted. At the same time we both felt that it was one or the other. Attention had to be shared. We both felt a need to be seen as two personalities (on an unconscious level). There was a competitive battle, competitive spirit, we wanted to be visible and seen. Who am I? Am I visible, in the first place to my parents and later will people see me for who I am? If you are twins, people tend to compare you, people see you as one. While you are a private individual.
This brings me to the theme of abundance. The theme of NOW. No more dualistic thinking, one or the other, black or white, good or bad, etc. It should all be there. How wonderful that together we are ONE. We complement each other, not everyone has to have the same capabilities. It's just so nice to join forces and combine these capabilities of one another to form a larger platform. Twins have had such an experience at micro level. The experience of abundance as mankind, is such an experience at macro level.
Why believe in scarcity?
If people step into the foreground a lot, occupy much space (ego), I find myself stepping back a bit.
Go ahead, I'm not fighting for space, for work, to be seen. I want to BE and share, work together and co-create.
I want to feel, experience and join forces. Experience abundance together.
We are in a transition together. We are growing towards another society. From a dualistic, individualistic society (I deserve a little more than her), to a loving society, where we can share and in which all the links come together.
That’s what I feel and what I hope for. Why should we still think in scarcity? Does it not come from fear and uncertainty? And/or emotional blockages from your past? Do I have enough? Or do I ever have enough? Am I never satisfied? It’s gives so much pleasure to be satisfied, to experience peace and balance within. I think that’s why I do the work I do.
When it comes to life, what is really important? How important is money? Is it a means to an end or is it a goal in life?
I have experienced that myself years ago when I was at the CCU. What am I doing? Undermining myself, going on and on in the endless carousel of life and work and it never came to a stop. Can I get off? I have all these responsibilities….
I then made contact with my heart (literally and figuratively) and felt THE LOVE, not only for myself but for the whole world. I really felt the abundance. That is such an overwhelming experience. You can only do one thing and that is to SHARE.
Let people feel who they really are, in the core of their being. That's so touching and beautiful, so light and loving to yourself. Why should you not grant yourself that feeling? You can feel your own power again, you can feel your creativity flowing, you can trust your intuition again and be in full potential. Just follow your heart and not just your ego! No longer think in boxes but in circles. Feel the freedom and space it brings.
While standing on the ground with both feet, feel the energy of the earth flowing through you. It makes you feel grounded and strong.
Take time for yourself. For a moment inside. By meditating or taking a walk in nature. Nature is so beautiful and healing. If you take a close look you will see how synergistic nature is. Every flower, every leave is so symmetric. Nature does not consist of booths in which you need to adjust, but it consists of circles. Why should we be different?
It is so beautiful to see life as an adventure, to be able to enjoy the seemingly small things. Let your heart fill with love when you are listening to a beautiful piece of music or when you see a child play. So simple, but on the other hand so real.
Why should life be harsh?
When I experience the gravity of people and the pain which many people carry within them, I go outside and see nature as a metaphor for life. In all weathers, nature remains intact and goes with the flow. It will not move against the flow and takes it as it comes.
You can recharge yourself so well by going for a walk in the forest or on the beach, for example.
I wish you all a wonderful, delicious, colorful summer, with lots of moments outdoors.
With love,
Marcella de Klerk
Wholehearted
Marcella de Klerk is a transformation coach, healer and reader. Mission: To guide you on your journey to your authentic self.